The story of Jenessa and Andrew is one that makes me smile and makes my heart ache at the same time. It was a road full of ups and downs -- sometimes it felt like a fun roller coaster ride, and sometimes it felt like one of those drives where there's a cliff on one edge that makes you feel like you are out of control and might fall off the edge. But I would never give up the hard times, because those are the moments that defined our relationship today. One that is happy, full of joy, full of confidence, and thriving. And I completely believe that it would never have become what it is without the trials that we faced together.
I hope that someday, someone who comes across this blog who is searching for their happily ever after will come to realize that love and relationship security can happen in a second. It can happen in a year. And it may not ever happen at all. My point is that every relationship is different. Your story is your own and never let anyone put any expectations in your head about what it has to be. Because happy endings come in so many different varieties, and we each have an individual reality and circumstance. You decide your happy ending. Not your parents. Not God (though he will completely support you no matter what). Not your family, coworkers, or friends. You are the one who chooses happiness every single day.
So here it begins. The story of us and our lovely little family.
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